December 31, 2012

50 Things You Need To Give Up Today!!

When you stop chasing the wrong things,  you give the right things a chance to catch you.

  1. Give up dwelling on the past or worrying too much about the future. – Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you. Right now is life. Don’t miss it. 
  2. Give up complaining. – Do something about it. 
  3. Give up holding grudges. – Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. 
  4. Give up waiting. – What we don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow. Knowledge and intelligence are both useless without action. 
  5. Give up lying. – In the long-run the truth always reveals itself. Either you own up to your actions or your actions will ultimately own you. 
  6. Give up trying to avoid mistakes. – The only mistake that can truly hurt you is choosing to do nothing simply because you’re too scared to make a mistake. 
  7. Give up saying, “I can’t.” – As Henry Ford put it, “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.” 
  8. Give up trying to be everything to everyone. – Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. Start small. Start now. 
  9. Give up thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first. 
  10. Give up setting small goals for yourself. – Many people set small goals because they’re afraid to fail. Ironically, setting these small goals is what makes them fail. 
  11. Give up trying to do everything by yourself. – You are the sum of the people you spend the most time with. If you work together, you will be far more capable and powerful than you ever could have been alone. 
  12. Give up buying things you don’t need. – Manage your money wisely so your money does not manage you. Do not spend to impress others. Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking wealth is measured in material objects. 
  13. Give up blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can live your dream life depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life. When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life. 
  14. Give up making mountains out of molehills. – One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years? Five years? If not, then it’s not worth worrying about. 
  15. Give up trying to live up to the expectations of others. – Work on it for real and exceed your own expectations. Everything else will fall into place. 
  16. Give up the ‘easy street’ mentality. – There is too much emphasis on finding a ‘quick fix’ in today’s society. For example taking diet pills to lose weight instead of exercising and eating well. No amount of magic fairy dust replaces diligent, focused, hard work. 
  17. Give up making promises you can’t keep. – Don’t over-promise. Over-deliver on everything you do. 
  18. Give up letting your thoughts and feelings bottle up inside. – People are not mind readers. They will never know how you feel unless you tell them. 
  19. Give up beating around the bush. – Say what you mean and mean what you say. Communicate effectively. 
  20. Give up avoiding change. – However good or bad a situation is now, it will change. That’s the one thing you can count on. So embrace change and realize that change happens for a reason. It won’t always be easy or obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it. 
  21. Give up your sense of entitlement. – Nobody is entitled to anything in this world. We are all equal. We breathe the same air. We get what we give. We get what we earn. 
  22. Give up waiting until the last minute. – Those who fail to plan, plan to fail. 
  23. Give up being dramatic. – Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your own. 
  24. Give up being anti-athletic. – Get your body moving! Simply take a long, relaxing walk or commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program. 
  25. Give up junk food. – You are what you eat. 
  26. Give up eating as a means of entertainment. – Don’t eat when you’re bored. Eat when you’re hungry. 
  27. Give up foolish habits that you know are foolish. – Don’t text and drive. Don’t drink and drive. Don’t smoke. Etc. 
  28. Give up relationships with people who bring you down. – Saying “no” to right people gives you the time and resources required to say “yes” to right opportunities. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded. 
  29. Give up being shy. – Network with people. Meet new people. Ask questions. Introduce yourself. 
  30. Give up worrying about what others think of you. – Unless you’re trying to make a great first impression (job interview, first date, etc.), don’t let the opinions of others stand in your way. What they think and say about you isn’t important. What is important is how you feel about yourself. 
  31. Give up trying to control everything. – Life is an unpredictable phenomenon. No matter how good or bad things seem right now, we can never be 100% certain what will happen next. So do you best with what’s in front of you and leave the rest to the powers above you. 
  32. Give up doing the same thing over and over again. – In order to grow, you must expand your horizons and break free of your comfort zone. If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. 
  33. Give up following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. Don’t find the easy way out. Do something extraordinary. 
  34. Give up persistent multi-tasking. – Do one thing at a time and do it right. 
  35. Give up thinking others are luckier than you. – The harder you work, the luckier you will become. 
  36. Give up filling every waking moment with commitments and activities. – It’s okay to be alone. It’s okay to do nothing sometimes. Think. Relax. Breathe. Be. 
  37. Give up making emotional decisions. – Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence. Slow down and think things through before you make any life-changing decisions. 
  38. Give up doing the wrong things just because you can get away with it. – Just because you can get away with something doesn’t mean you should do it. Think bigger. Keep the end in mind. Do what you know in your heart is right. 
  39. Give up focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen. Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right. 
  40. Give up taking yourself so seriously. – Few others do anyway. So enjoy yourself and have a little fun while you can. 
  41. Give up spending your life working in a career field you’re notpassionate about. – Life is too short for such nonsense. The right career choice is based on one key point: Finding hard work you love doing. So if you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop. You’re on to something big. Because hard work ain’t hard when you concentrate on your passions. 
  42. Give up thinking about the things you don’t have. – Appreciate everything you do have. Many people aren’t so lucky. 
  43. Give up doubting others. – People who are determined do remarkable things. Remember, the one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it. 
  44. Give up fussing with every beauty product on the market. – Good looks attracts the eyes. Personality attracts the heart. Be proud to be you. That’s when you’re beautiful. 
  45. Give up trying to fit in. – Don’t mold yourself into someone you’re not. Be yourself. Oftentimes, the only reason they want you to fit in is that once you do they can ignore you and go about their business. 
  46. Give up trying to be different for the sake of being different. – Nonconformity for the sake of nonconformity is conformity. When people try too hard to be different, they usually end up being just like everyone else who is trying to be different. Once again, be yourself. 
  47. Give up trying to avoid risk. – There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’ Everything you do or don’t do has an inherent risk. 
  48. Give up putting your own needs on the back burner. – Yes, help others, but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
  49. Give up comparing yourself to others. – The only person you are competing against is yourself. 
  50. Give up trying to be perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
And remember, mistakes make us human, failures help us grow, hope keeps us going and love is the reason we’re alive. So keep learning, loving and living. Never give up on yourself.
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December 30, 2012

QUOTES

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December 28, 2012

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December 26, 2012

Downton Abbey Season 3 - HUGE SPOILER ALERT!

Don't continue reading if you have not seen the Christmas Special Episode that aired yesterday in the  UK or, if you don't want to know how season 3 ends.

Dan Stevens on leaving Downton Abbey:

Dan Stevens: Why I left Downton Abbey
As a nation reels from the death of Matthew Crawley, Dan Stevens talks exclusively to Sarah Crompton about his departure from the ITV drama  - article by Sarah Crompton at The Telegraph

Dan Stevens looks shaken. We are in an empty restaurant in New York and I have just become the first outsider he has ever told about his death in Downton Abbey. “It is very odd,” he says.
After the Christmas special yesterday, the entire world knows that honorable  handsome, happy Matthew Crawley has died at the wheel of his car, reducing a nation to tears of dismay and disbelief. At the time of our interview last month, there was a lot of speculation, but no actual confirmation. “It is very strange to make it official especially since we are talking about it in the future perfect,” he says, with a laugh. “I am not sure exactly what tense it is, but it is something very weird.”
That is an almost perfect Dan Stevens joke. He is the charming, well-spoken, Cambridge-educated actor who has become as famous as any movie star thanks to his role as the romantic lead in Downton. But his literary aspirations, his desire to be more than just another TV sensation, meant that though his fans wanted him to stay, they knew that he would probably choose to go.
In fact, he made the decision in February before he even started filming the third series. “We were always optioned for three years,” he explains. “And when that came up it was a very difficult decision. But it felt like a good time to take stock, to take a moment. From a personal point of view, I wanted a chance to do other things.
“It is a very monopolizing job. So there is a strange sense of liberation at the same time as great sadness because I am very, very fond of the show and always will be.”
As yet, he can’t say what future projects he will take on, though “there are some exciting opportunities”. Until February, he is on stage in New York, playing opposite Jessica Chastain and David Strathairn in The Heiress, an adaptation of Henry James’s Washington Square. Stevens is Morris Townsend, who may or may not be a fortune hunter. He has sideburns and an American accent and when he walks on stage, there is the strange frisson of seeing him play someone who is not Matthew Crawley – and convey the ambiguities of a darker character very well.
This ambition to do something different is what has spurred him on. “It is a desire for freedom really,” he says. “I don’t see money or a particular status as an actor as a goal but I want to do the best work I can in as interesting a range of roles as I can. And I think a moment like this is quite unique and presents those opportunities more than ever before.
“That may not be the case,” he adds, with another laugh. “I genuinely don’t know exactly what is around the corner but I hope it will be something a little bit different. Morris Townsend is a little bit different, and that for me is good enough.”
His voice trails away, and he looks down at his hands. When he is talking about books or theater  there is no stopping him. When he talks about Downton, he is more cautious. At the time he signed up, Stevens was mainly a theater actor familiar on television for his part in Alan Hollinghurst’s The Line of Beauty. But he was neither a household name, nor a heartthrob. Downton, playing on his boyish handsomeness and his passionate affair with the stand-offish Lady Mary, has made him a star, both in the UK and America. When he walks on stage in New York, he commands a round of applause just as great as that of his movie-making co-stars.
‘None of us had any idea of how successful Downton was going to be,” he says. “I thought I was signing up for another period drama that had a slightly modern feel. It had a freedom about it because it was coming out of the head of Julian Fellowes. Anything could happen and generally did.”
Its appeal, from the first, was its company feel – rare in TV. “There was no main character. Everybody owned their storyline. And it was fun. It had a tongue in cheek element which set it apart. I had done quite a few period dramas at that point and I was ready not to do another one and then these scripts came along and the Matthew/Mary relationship was just such fun – I am really glad I didn’t turn it down.”
Stevens’s affection for Downton is unmistakable – he generally tweets “Hound’s bum abbey time” as each episode starts, a reference to the dog’s bottom that opens the credits. “In terms of its popularity,” he explains, “there is a kind of ironic enjoyment as well as a serious enjoyment. One of my ways of coping with the attention that it has received is to join the ranks enjoying the mania of Downton rather than take the whole thing too seriously. But that is my way with most things. Not to take them too seriously.”
That much is clear. He laughs a lot while he talks, and makes rather good jokes. But he also uses this charm to deflect questions. If he has felt any frustration, he does not show it: but he did make his decision to leave after the second series, the one in which Matthew – apparently paralyzed in the war – was forced by the plot to rise from his wheelchair like Lazarus from the grave.
“I think it was harder for the people who had to react to me getting out of the chair,” says Stevens, with a grin. “That was a particularly strange point in the narrative. I think there were some justifiable criticisms of series two and its pace. I think from what I have seen, series three has been a lot stronger. But from the actor’s point of view all the bombs and the mud and everything were great to film and I had a great time.”
Nevertheless, for so intelligent a man, it must have hurt when his peer Benedict Cumberbatch was quoted as describing that second series as “f------ atrocious.” “From what he has told me, and from what I understand, he was misquoted or certainly quoted out of context,” says Stevens, loyally. “But the thing that upset people was that there is a sort of unwritten rule that whatever you think of other people’s shows you don’t diss them to journalists.”
He insists, however, that it is Downton’s capacity to surprise – whether it is a Turkish diplomat expiring in Lady Mary’s bed or the unforeseen death of Sybil in childbirth – that sets it apart. “You think you are trotting along with a nice Sunday night drama and something happens. It wouldn’t be Downton if it wasn’t for all the big twists and shocks.”
Now Mathew’s death is the melodrama that has left viewers reeling. “It was very emotional shooting the end of this series, because those guys are like family. We have been living together for three years and have been on the most amazing journey. I don’t think any of us, with the possible exception of Maggie, have had this kind of explosion in our career paths, and may never again. It has been so bizarre, and only those who have been through it can understand it.”
His closeness to the Downton tribe is obvious: he describes Hugh Bonneville and Allen Leech (Branson) as being like “hilarious brothers” to him and the experience of working with Maggie Smith as a joy. “There are certain takes where you can see us still half-chuckling from some remark she has made just before ‘action’.” He will miss Lady Mary (Michelle Dockery) because “after everything we have been through it will be sad not to see the relationship continue”.
“On the other hand, I won’t be sorry to see the back of that dining room,” he says, with a roar of laughter. “It may have held some of the key plot points, but it is just a nightmare to shoot in. There are so many angles and edits and it gets very airless and stuffy – and it is blacked out so even at 10 in the morning we are in the dark.”
For all his expressed sadness, he almost glistens with the excitement of what is to come. He has left after what he describes as the “busiest year I have ever had professionally. I hope I never have another year that is quite like this.” Even listing what he has done is exhausting: seven months of shooting Downton, being a judge for the Man Booker prize, producing the film Summer in February, in which he also stars, co-editing an online literary magazine (thejunket.org), writing a column for the Sunday Telegraph, passing 30, becoming a father for the second time (a son, Aubrey to join Willow, aged three), starring on Broadway.
This may have had some effect on his choice. “I was in Cornwall producing my first film. I had 145 novels on my plate with the Booker, I was writing and editing, we had our second baby on the way [his wife is the jazz singer and teacher Susie Hariet] and things were getting kind of crazy.”
His natural curiosity is revealed by the way he talks about each aspect of the year. The Booker judging, in particular, allowed the bright boy who sailed out of Croydon via public school and Cambridge to fulfil his intellectual ambitions. “Whenever we met as judges it was like some of the finest supervisions I had at university, talking about literature with brilliant people.” On the other hand, in the early stages of trying to read so many novels, “I can’t even begin to describe the depths of despair I was in at some points.”
He feels he can reveal that thanks to his liking for the experimental, he was particularly fond of Will Self’s Umbrella. “It is without question an extraordinary novel but ultimately the question was, are we choosing the most ground-breaking book or the best work of literary fiction that year. Hilary Mantel’s Bring Up the Bodies is a brilliant, brilliant novel. And if you have written the best work of literary fiction you should win the prize, so in that sense it was unanimous.”
Next on the cards, I suspect, though he is guarded, is not theater or literature, but a big film. “I haven’t done as many films as I would have liked,” he says. “A lot of my contemporaries have done more. I don’t have ‘I will be a movie star’ emblazoned on anything, but I’d like do a bit more screen stuff and then when the time is right come back to theater  When it is good, theater takes a lot of beating both to watch and perform.”
It is possible, I suggest, that his life will never again reach this high point of fame. “Oh it is quite possible that none of us in Downton will ever again get the ratings this has had,” he smiles. “But from a career point of view, it has opened so many doors.
“I genuinely don’t feel ‘I must play this role’ or ‘I must take this much at the box office’ in order to fulfill my happiness quotient. As long as I am given the opportunity to keep performing and keep exploring in whatever medium, I’ll be happy. As long as I get to spend time with my family, I’ll be happy. As long as I can write in some form, I’ll be happy. It is the essential things like that I equate with happiness.”
However sad the end of Matthew Crawley, the happiness of Dan Stevens is likely to grow and grow.  What do you think?


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December 25, 2012

Downton Abbey 3 - Christmas Special - Episode 9





Full recap below: 

(spoilers!! - don't read further if you have yet to watch the episode)







Christmas Special (2012)

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TitleDirected byWritten byOriginal airdateViewers (in millions)
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25CS2"A Journey to the Highlands"Andy GoddardJulian Fellowes25 December 201210.28 [nb 19]92 minutes
September 1921.[74] The Crawley family heads north, to Duneagle Castle in Scotland - the ancestral home of The MacClare family - to visit Lady Rose and her warring parents, Susan and Hugh ("Shrimpy"). Bates, Anna, Molesley, and O'Brien also make the trip. Gregson, the man who hired Lady Edith on at the newspaper, tells her that he is going to be in Scotland as well. After Edith informs her family of this Mary and Matthew disagree about Gregson's motives. Tom remains at Downton with baby Sybil. The staff looks forward to the approaching country fair, and Carson struggles to keep them concentrating on work. A new housemaid, Edna, joins the staff and is quickly fired after Mrs Hughes discovers her getting too close to Tom. Mrs Patmore becomes involved in a romance, but it does not last as she realises he is only interested in her cooking. At the country fair, the Downton staff win the tug of war. Jimmy is nearly robbed after winning money from betting, but is saved by Thomas. They later agree just to be friends. Lady Mary goes into labour early, rushing home to deliver her baby, a son. Matthew soon joins her to meet his heir. But on the way back to Downton, he is killed in a car accident.[75][76][77] 

December 24, 2012

Downton Abbey Gingerbread House!



Curtis Jensen, a marketing director from Utah posted video evidence of the elaborate gingerbread house he created in the image of our beloved Yorkshire estate. The time-lapse YouTube video, charmingly set to the Downton theme song, shows him constructing the Jacobean country house from little more than gingerbread, icing, green- and red-colored candies, and focus so steely that it would likely earn an approving head nod from the Dowager Countess.

Although Jensen did encounter at least one obstacle during construction—the gingerbread did not harden properly, he explains via subtitles—he persevered (like a true Crawley) by affixing pieces of foam core to the gingerbread panels. In the comment section, Jensen approximates that it took him one full weekend, one week’s worth of nights, and one day off from work to complete the home.

Jensen’s past projects include a “Glitterbread” house and a gingerbread Notre Dame, construction of which he also documented on YouTube. You can attempt to woo the baked-goods visionary into attending your Downton Abbey Season Three–premiere party via his Twitter account. In the meantime, Downton Abbey’s Season Three premieres in 16 days—approximately the same amount of time it would take us to eat this masterpiece.

December 23, 2012

Christmas Quotes

Christmas movie quotes  from "It's a    Wonderful Life"  My favorite
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The Reason for the Season
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December 22, 2012

Downton Abbey 12 Days of Christmas











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